Carey Nieuwhof is a best-selling leadership author, speaker, podcaster, blogger, former attorney, and church planter. Toni Nieuwhof is a family law mediator, former divorce attorney, author, speaker and co-host of the Smart Family Podcast. Toni and Carey have spoken publicly about their marriage and she has just released a book to help struggling marriages, Before You Split. From her attorney work, Toni exposes hidden realities about divorce, while also showing how her marriage with Carey went from that bad to this good. Carey and Toni are now overjoyed to celebrate 31 years of being married.