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Stepparent: Back-Up Mom

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One stepmom was pleasantly surprised when her two oldest stepdaughters gave her a card on Mother's Day. It read, “Everyone needs a back-up mom. You're mine!” What a huge compliment. She was beaming from ear to ear. So, why does she need a hug? Because this stepmom's other two stepchildren didn't acknowledge her at all on Mother's Day. Not a word. So which is it? Is she accepted or rejected? A part of the family or pushed aside? Ambiguity is a stepparent's middle name. That's why they need a hug.

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  • One stepmom was pleasantly surprised when her two oldest stepdaughters gave her a card on Mother's Day. It read, “Everyone needs a back-up mom. You're mine!” What a huge compliment. She was beaming from ear to ear. So, why does she need a hug? Because this stepmom's other two stepchildren didn't acknowledge her at all on Mother's Day. Not a word. So which is it? Is she accepted or rejected? A part of the family or pushed aside? Ambiguity is a stepparent's middle name. That's why they need a hug.

  • Ron Deal

    Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.

Today let me share reason number 642 why stepparents need a hug.

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Stepparent: Back-Up Mom

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Ron: Today let me share reason number 642 why stepparents need a hug.

Announcer: For FamilyLife Blended®, here’s Ron Deal.

Ron: One stepmom was pleasantly surprised when her two oldest stepdaughters gave her a card on Mother’s Day. It read, “Everyone needs a back-up mom. You’re mine!” Wow, what a huge compliment. She was beaming from ear to ear.

So, why does she need a hug? Because this stepmom’s other two stepchildren didn’t acknowledge her at all on Mother’s Day. Not a word. So which is it? Is she accepted or rejected? A part of the family or pushed aside? Ambiguity is a stepparent’s middle name. And that’s why they need a hug. For FamilyLife Blended, I’m Ron Deal.

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