My Marriage Is Better, and I Feel Guilty About It

It sounds odd but that's what some divorced and remarried people feel. The church doesn't help when we're condescending. The message is, "You had a failed marriage so you're a failure and you don't deserve to be happy." What? I thought there was no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. I think we're all relying on that one. Yes, sin is dark and has consequences in this life. But that doesn't mean a repentant heart can't rest in the warmth of God's mercy and grace. Shame free.