Loving With Correction (Proverbs 27)
Today's culture says that it's loving to be tolerant. I have my truth, you have yours, and anyone who suggests otherwise is intolerant and unloving. Contrast that to God's word, Proverbs 27: "Better is open rebuke than hidden love." Real love, God says, is willing to correct a friend or a loved one-that is evidence of love, but saying nothing, is withholding love. It's weak and selfish. Don't' be intimidated about graciously and kindly sharing truth. Sometimes it's what love does.
Show Notes
About the Host
About the Guest
-
Today's culture says that it's loving to be tolerant. I have my truth, you have yours, and anyone who suggests otherwise is intolerant and unloving. Contrast that to God's word, Proverbs 27: "Better is open rebuke than hidden love." Real love, God says, is willing to correct a friend or a loved one-that is evidence of love, but saying nothing, is withholding love. It's weak and selfish. Don't' be intimidated about graciously and kindly sharing truth. Sometimes it's what love does.
-
Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.
-
Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and ...more
Compassionately correcting a friend is an act of love.
Ron: Compassionately correcting a friend is an act of love.
Announcer: For FamilyLife Blended®, here’s Ron Deal.
Ron: Today’s culture says that it’s loving to be tolerant. I have my truth, you have yours, and anyone who suggests otherwise is intolerant and unloving. Contrast that to God’s word, Proverbs 27: “Better is open rebuke than hidden love.”
Real love, God says, is willing to correct a friend or a loved one—that is evidence of love, but saying nothing, is withholding love. In other words, “live and let live” is not love. It’s weak and selfish. Don’t be intimidated about graciously and kindly sharing truth. Sometimes it’s what love does. For FamilyLife Blended, I’m Ron Deal.
Announcer: To find out more visit familylifeblended.com.
FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal is a production of FamilyLife. Help for today. Hope for tomorrow.
We are so happy to provide these transcripts to you. However, there is a cost to produce them for our website. If you’ve benefited from the broadcast transcripts, would you consider donating today to help defray the costs?
Visit http://www.familylifeblended.com/donate.
Copyright © 2020 FamilyLife. All rights reserved.
