Is Your Family Broken?
Someone might call a divorced family a broken family. How would you feel if I called you broken? If you mean fractured, yes, it's no longer intact. But when we say broken what's heard is, “less than” which communicates condemnation and unworthiness. Are we implying divorced people and their kids can't be whole? We don't call widowed families broken. Let's use less pejorative terms like “divorced family” or “single parent family” and reserve the term broken for ourselves as we kneel at the cross.
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About the Guest
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Someone might call a divorced family a broken family. How would you feel if I called you broken? If you mean fractured, yes, it's no longer intact. But when we say broken what's heard is, “less than” which communicates condemnation and unworthiness. Are we implying divorced people and their kids can't be whole? We don't call widowed families broken. Let's use less pejorative terms like “divorced family” or “single parent family” and reserve the term broken for ourselves as we kneel at the cross.
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and ...more
Ok, folks, let’s be careful with our words.
Ron: Ok, folks, let’s be careful with our words.
Announcer: For FamilyLife Blended®, here’s Ron Deal.
Ron: Someone might call a divorced family a broken family. Well, how would you feel if I called you broken? Now, if you mean fractured, yes, it’s no longer intact. But when we say broken what people often hear is, “less than.” That communicates condemnation and unworthiness. Are divorced people and their kids less than? Are we implying that they can’t be whole? We don’t call widowed families broken.
Let me encourage you. Use less pejorative terms like “divorced family” or “single parent family” and let’s reserve the term broken for ourselves as we kneel at the foot of the cross. For FamilyLife Blended I’m Ron Deal.
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